Tuesday, February 28, 2023

 Some aspects, comments and observations around our trip (Biya-Anton)  to USA-Mexico-Guatemala-   Belize  (1 December 2022 – 12 February 2023)….73 days 

Getting out of the winter period from the Netherlands and Korea and traveling together to the South is a plan we manage to realize practically every year. Then the older we get, the longer the winters seem to last. Unfortunately in the Netherlands our winter, in the past 40 years, has turned into a grey period, little sun, lack of cold and crispy weather, hardly any snow.. and I can go on. Hence Biya and I travel to areas where we can be outdoors and work on our project of becoming more fluent in Spanish. 

This trip was not too eventful as Biya’s knee prevented us from challenging walks, climbs and adventurous outings. We felt good though just being able to travel and be together in faraway lands where clearly we only scratched the surface of the cultures we met. Then, definitely we appreciated all the people and the nature we saw! And we proved to be a positive minded couple without serious issues. Not easy for two strong individuals being together so closely for two and a half months. Chapeau to the 2 of us! Or not?

We decided to meet in L.A./California where we can stay at ‘Bona sister’s’ comfortable place close to LAX airport in ‘Koreatown’. We were able to visit Biya’s special friends in Salt Lake City (SLC) in Utah. Jerry and Janice Whitton sponsored Biya a nearly four decades ago, when Jerry worked for the US army in Seoul. They brought her to the University of Utah to study and get her Master’s degree in communications/public relations. An unusual invitation from an unusual couple. Jerry and Janice lived for over 20 years in Fairbanks, Alaska where we visited their rude cabin in the woods a few years ago. Thanks God they are back in Utah now. Though when we arrived at their home in West Jordan Valley it was cold with snow. Now old and frail, the Whitton’s are hanging in there. May God continue to bless them!  

Salt Lake City (SLC) and the town of Provo in Utah are the global centers of the Church of Latter Day Saints, better known as the Mormon Church, now a worldwide religion with an impressive infrastructure as one can see from pictures. 

Mormon temple-offices grounds downtown Salt Lake City 


When strolling through the center of SLC one can not help to admire the beautiful temples and historical sites of the Mormons. For over 125 years they carefully landscaped their presence in this city and although a minority now, one can still easily pick out the Mormons (well dressed and always helpful). 

I was surprised to see in Vernier-Geneva, and in walking distance from the Cornavin railway station a huge and new Mormon Church when I lived there some 15 years ago. Then during our travels this time another Mormon Church in Antigua (Guatemala) built on a large plot caught my eye. Definitely the faithful support the growth of their Church; something the Catholics seem not able to do anymore since World War II.  

According to the book of Mormon, Jezus appeared soon after his death in North America; and a tribe from Israel earlier on had migrated to the ‘new world’. In dreams, a simple American farmer, name of Joseph Smith, was instructed by the prophet Moroni to look for ‘plates’ (basically a compilation of a different kind of Testament) in the hills of New York State / we are talking 1823 now!! These plates supposedly described the history of God’s existence and work in North America. Upon analysis of the ‘plates’ and further divine instructions Joseph Smith then developed the rules of this new religion and built the infrastructure of the Mormon Church against many odds. Smith himself was murdered in Illinois by a mob of Mormon haters in 1844.

This story sounds farfetched to many … but  the Mormons have worldwide some 20 million faithful with a strong presence in the USA, Brazil, Canada, Mexico, Australia, plus practicing Mormons with a missionary presence in well over 150 countries. All the young Mormon men serve for over a year somewhere in the world as missionary and you may see them at the corners of the street, like in Eindhoven: clean shaven and decked out in suit and tie. Possibly the fasted growing church/religion globally.  Nice people when you meet them in the street and in their temple. Biya and I attended a beautiful Christmas carol session performed by girls and boys from a Mormon secondary school: amazing grace!

The Mormons take their religion seriously one can say that; church coffers seem full, construction going on all over Provo and Salt Lake City. And the life style of the Mormons is impacted by frugality, family life first, no alcohol nor tobacco and similar restrictive guidelines.  Polygamy is not the norm anymore (although still happening in isolated communities) and Afro-Americans can be members as well since many decades.

Book about Mormons….title ‘Under the banner of heaven’. John Krakauer (2004) / non-fiction well researched and documented. A fascinating read!

To stay with religion…it was a déjà vu for me when we saw at Belize international airport some 15 Mennonite families, traditionally dressed, on their way back to Canada where they still have large communities. Mennonites in Belize….. (the Dutchman Menno Simons in the 16th century) / these were reformists / protestants and peace loving. Because of their traditional life style and refusal to serve under arms they had/have problems in many countries. I worked with the Mennonites closely when I served EIRENE in Niger (1979-1982). The Belize government some 40 years ago agreed not to draft Mennonites into its army and gave them large plots for cultivation, knowing their agricultural skills. Really nice to see these Mennonite families with their large families.

Mennonites rural life in Belize anno 2023


We decided to fly straight into Mexico Ciudad and prioritize the Southeast. I was apprehensive of the security or better the lack of security and the potential flare-up of street violence. To my positive surprise Biya and I perceived those areas we traveled through as very safe and secure. The capital sports frequent walking patrols of armed police and the army. And in the center of town, mobile armed patrols in Ford Ranger pick-ups sitting on flatbeds with machine guns touting, give some kind of security. True to the bone, our trip was far away from the US/Mexican border (more than 1.000 kms!) and we were not close to the ‘Narco-lands’. The closest we came to a place that could be problematic was Acapulco on the Pacific coast. No, tens of thousands of foreigners are traveling on a daily basis through Mexico like we do: bus, taxi, backpack, small hotel, city walking…. And we did not meet/hear/see anything close to the insecurity the media and foreign embassies warn you against.  

Of course we remained always on the alert and I still have my professional humanitarian attitude of observing any signs of trouble and then keep away from it: no walks at night; check taxis before getting in, keep your passport and money out of sight and so on. Also in Guatemala we had no issues at all. Clearly we became comfortable traveling around from day one, when we took a safe no-nonsense taxi from Mexico City airport to our hotel in the Cuauntemoc area / Rio Lerma.

Traveling through Mexico can be very pleasant and the way we did it was comfortable: mostly by Pulman bus and 4 times overnight for long distances. Yes, as everywhere in the world drivers get sleepy and a few times we nearly veered off the road during the early morning hours. I am so scared then as I always watch the driver’s alertness while other passengers are sleeping or punching their smartphones. But generally yes: busing around is tops.  But I do recall the trip from Guatemala City to Flores overnight in a double-decker where we had a seat upfront top floor with the windscreen already pretty much cracked. A bit scary and prayers are in order before departure!


The patio in the IDEAL Spanish school in Cuernavaca

Lodging facilities are also better than expected. And cheap as well. We stayed away from the colonial type hotels (that always have dark and small rooms) and filtered on the aspects of size, accessibility, proximity to center, windows/light, and ‘dinero’! Biya did most of this and she scored a good 80% plus on this internet task. Well done honey; appreciated. I do not have the patience to scrutinize the internet for it anymore. We nicely decided to stay at least three nights in the accommodation we booked. Otherwise the turn-over is too frequent and in the end you cannot even remember where you have been! 

Then the lodging concept has changed in the past five years toward something I personally take issue with. Increasingly a hotel is not a place where you can eat or drink, but just only sleep. Increasingly so called hotels or bed & breakfast places, apartments or whatever the lodging is called: there is no reception or no one to open the door when you arrive. Instead you find a notice to call a number then you have to identify yourself and you get a code to unlock the doors. Really all of this I find unpleasant though young people apparently prefer it. We think that the younger generation is not interested in talking to or seeing real people managing the premises. No towels in the bathroom…ha-ha please send a WhatsApp message and just pray that someone reads it and does something about it! This appears to be the global trend. Grrrr. So I try to go for the classic hotels with a breakfast room, a little bar and as a minimum someone fielding the reception desk. 

So where did we go then?  Mexico City, Cuernavaca, Oaxaca, Huatulco, San Cristobal de las Casas / then into Guatemala staying in Panajachiel and San Pedro La Laguna, both at Lake Atitlan; then Antigua, Flores, Tikal. Finally crossing into Belize with one night in Belize City before flying to Dallas and Los Angeles.  

The above is a fairly standard touring scheme. We managed to see the hotspots at leisure and certainly I personally regretted that I had not visited Mexico before!

Mexico City not to miss:  National Anthropological museum, Church compound of Maria de Guadeloupe, patron of the Catholic Church in the Americas,  central Plaza / Zocalo with its historic buildings, the Teotihuacan complex of pre-Hispanic civilization; walking the streets and eating in small restaurants where mama does the cooking.

Cuernavaca to do: listen to live Mariachi bands in the central Plaza, enjoy lingering in the Borda garden and a visit to the Cathedral grounds; good food all over and less noise than Mexico city; also Amerindian temples close by. Possibly the best climate in the world.

Christmas Mass in Cuernavaca in Iglesia Maria de Guadeloupe


Feast of La Candalaria open air mass in Antigua, GT

Oaxaca is the place to be with its Spanish colonial styled buildings, colors, parks, food stalls and a beautiful Cathedral in central Plaza. I could easily live and study here for months on end. Situated in a valley it is surrounded by pretty villages and temples all around.

Huatulco is a spot to relax with its many small bays. Pacific coast!  Weather always good so we enjoyed sun, sand, walks, food and a great hotel for a full week. Lots of US citizens and Canadians live a retired life here.

Chahue beach : clean, quiet, but sea can be dangerous with undercurrents

San Cristobal de las Casas is another colorful colonial styled town with a cool climate at 2.200 meters altitude; lingering and many activities for the international youth scene seem to be the preferred pastime. A lot of young travelers / mainly from the USA/Europe; many single and doing a Central America tour; marihuana available as well. 

Lake Atitlan…a lot of noise everywhere we went. We selected the wrong towns I am afraid. Scenery is lovely but man, the music in all those lakefront bars is horrific (simply unpleasant). For the young and furious mainly.

Antigua is another pretty snazzy place with much history; one feels good here. A place to return to and climb the volcanos! Lots of tourists but somehow one does not mind. The atmosphere and sights are  unbeatable.

Volcano 'Fuego' close to Antigua


Flores is prettily situated at a large lake and has a tropical ‘feel’. The town lakeside, is lovely to wander around and plenty of eateries right at the lake itself.

Tikal is the jungle spot in Guatemala that should not be missed: national park with the largest ever discovered Maya complex. Definitely  impressive. Take 5 to 6 hours just walking around, and climbing up the temples.

Belize City reminded me / déjà vu! Again / of Banjul in the Gambia; the port area is busy and filthy; then we stayed uptown seaside just like I lived in Bakau close to the sea in the Gambia. Nice to hear and feel the sea breeze once again. Belize used to be British Honduras until 1973 though it was formally recognized by Guatemala as independent only in 1978 after a long border dispute. The British influence is clearly to be seen in the buildings, foods, and the composition of the population with a large proportion of African origin, a.o. 

Overall we only met helpful people. No stress either. Clearly, work is important but in Mexico shops, banks etc.  generally do not open for business before 9am if not 10am…..and I found the towns quiet after 8 or 9 pm. Same in Guatemala. And Mexico must by now have a significant part of its population that is well off. Guatemala is much poorer. Interestingly Mexico is much cheaper than Guatemala (except for the Spanish lessons!).  

Then we took all in all 29 lessons to improve our Spanish in Cuernavaca, Oaxaca, San Cristobal de las Casas and in Antigua. Boy, we were fortunate to find good teachers (Alysha, Julissa, Estephany and Sorayda). The IDEAL school, run by the Brito family in Cuernavaca proved a hit and from then on it was easy to just play it by ear. In the towns we searched for teachers we just looked at the posters at lampposts!  Nevertheless we have to continue brushing up every year to remain at the intermediate level where we are now! Biya is more serious than I am studying but then I know a lot of palabras and do not mind the mistakes I make. 

IDEAL Spanish school in Cuernavaca

Mexico has quite a lot of famous men and women and the Mexicans identify with their country more than the Dutch do with theirs. People are proud of Emiliano Zapata and other evolutionairies that left their mark on the country's history. The Americans we met in Mexico love the place (I guess more than 2,5 million US citizens live there more or less permanently, including digital nomads).

A pity that plenty 'bad' foodies have permanently entered the food habits of young people. I was surprised to see so many obese youngsters lurking on coca cola cans and munching on chips and crisps of all kinds. Caramba, no es bueno!  

Finally I was particulalry interested in the period when Mexico suffered under the Spanish occupation. Two books I can recommend: 1. Salvador de Madariaga, Hernan Cortes the conquest of Mexico (biography) 2. Ana Lanyon, the new world of Martin Cortes (son of Hernan Cortes). For those who love history you will not be disappointed.

And listen also to Neil Young and the Crazy Horse Band with the song 'Cortez the Killer'(1975). In the end the Spanish conquistadores killed or annihilated a significant portion of the Amerindians all over Latin America. In just over 100 years from Patagonia to Northern Mexico. 

Last blurps:   I tasted the pulque, tequila and mezcal....not a fan (but when offered with lime and salt I do enjoy the tequila). The beer is good: Modelo, Pacifico lagers, and yes, Corona in Mexico tastes better than in the NL. 

Food is yummy......tacos, enchiladas, quesadillas, tortillas, guacamole, other moles, soups/caldos, black beans....and maize. Really I have begun to like maize because in the NL we hardly eat it (but feed it to the cows). 

Here is the recipe for guacamole a la Mexicana. I prepared it already a few times and all my friends like it a lot.

For 4 to 5 persons: 4 ripe avocados, 2 red onions (cut up), 3 tomatoes (cut-up), 2 limes (juiced), 2 jalapeno peppers (cut up), 2 spoonfuls of good olive oil, a bit of oregano (if available), fresh coriander or similar (cut up), sal con gusto.  10  Seconds in the blender and you are all set.  

Street food cooking in Cuernavaca-Zocalo plaza

Money is easy to handle...ATM and change cash. Interestingly in both Mexico and Guatemala the euro seems an unwanted currency. Greenbacks preferred! But the banks all take a juicy commission of at least 6% and there can be long queues. Then, life is cheap there so let a small trivial thing like that not bother you.


Monday, February 20, 2023

Ton van Zutphen:  updated list of countries traveled to, and worked in / February 2023



Below is a list that I created to keep track of where I have been throughout my life. To be updated every year.

I was born in 1951......therefore  traveling to many new countries will not be frequent anymore.

Here are the countries and continents:

EUROPE  //  50
Netherlands (1951)
Belgium (1954) 
Luxemburg (1970)
France (1970)
West Germany (1954)
East Germany (1971)
San Marino (2011)
Ireland (1988)
Spain (1969)
Portugal (1972)
Italy (1973)
Yugoslavia (1973)
Switzerland (1974)
Austria (1971)
Hungary (1973)
Czechoslovakia (1971)
Germany (1992)
Denmark (1975)
Norway (1975)
Sweden (1975)
USSR (1984)
Russia (2002)
Ingushetia (2002)
North Ossetia - Alania (2002)
Estonia (2022)
Chechnya (2004)                                
Monaco (1970)                                
Romania (2003)
Bulgaria (1973)                                        
Greece (1973)                              
Albania (2002)
Kosovo (2002)                                        
Serbia-Montenegro (2002)              
Liechtenstein (2003)
Bosnia-Herzegovina(2003)                        
Respublika  Srpska (2003)                
the Vatican (2007)
Malta (2002)                                        
Cyprus (2003)                                
Northern Cyprus (2003)
Slovenia (2003)                                        
Czech Rep. (2003)                        
Slovakia (2002)
Macedonia (2002)                                
United Kingdom (1972)                        
Gibraltar (2013)             
Poland (2022)
Lithuania (2022)
Latvia (2022)
Finland (2022)

AFRICA   //    42
Morocco (1975)                                        
Algeria (1975)                                
Tunisia (1970)
Egypt (1975)                                        
Sudan (1999)                                
Niger (1979)
Mauritania (1999)                                
Mali (1983)                                
Senegal (1983)
Upper Volta (1981)                                
Burkina Faso (1983)                        
Central African Rep. (1991)
Ethiopia (1999)                                        
Eritrea (2000)                                
Zaire (1991)
DR Congo (1998)                                
Burundi (1998)                                
Rwanda (1998)
Zambia (1975)                                        
Tanzania(1975)                                                    
Republic the Sudan (2018)
Botswana (1975)
Rhodesia (1975)                                
Zimbabwe (1990)                        
Mozambique (1992)
South Africa (1975)                                
Malawi (1975)                                
Nigeria (1982)
Benin (1980)                                        
Togo (1983)                                
Ghana (1984)
Ivory Coast (1983)                                
Liberia (2000)                                
Guinea (1993)
the Gambia (1993)                                
Sierra Leone (2000)                        
Swaziland (1999)
Angola (1999)                                        
Transkei (1975)                                
Kenya (1997)
Chad (2012)
Cameroon (2014)

ASIA   //    36
Israel (1975)                                        
Turkey-Türkiye (1974)                                
Palestine (1975)
Jordan (1974)                                        
Kuwait (2003)                                
Iraq (2003)
Iran (1974)                                      
Armenia (2002)                                
Georgia (2002)
Abkhazia (2004)                                
Azerbaijan (2002)                        
Afghanistan (1974)
Pakistan (1973)                                      
United Arab Emirates (1994)                       
India (1974)
Sri Lanka (2005)                                        
Nepal (1974)
New Zealand (2016)                                                              
Bangladesh (1994)
Thailand (1974)                                      
Laos (1974)                                
the Lebanon (2002)
Hong Kong (1974)                                
Uzbekistan (2003)                      
Japan (1996)
Rep. South Korea (2006)                        
Malaysia (2011)                                
Singapore (2005)
Indonesia (2005)                                
Australia (2002)                                
Syria (1974)
Vietnam (1996)                                        
Kurdistan Republic – Iraq (2014)
China (2014)
Philippines (2014)
Taiwan (2015)

AMERICAS   //     10
USA (1988)                                        
Canada (1988)                                
Dominican Rep. (2008)                        
Brazil (2008) 
Panama (2011)
Haiti (2010)                                        
Cuba (2011)
Mexico (2022)
Guatemala (2022)
Belize (2023)

A grand total of 138.


Countries where I only touched down at their airports:  Libya (Tripoli-1982), Gabon (Libreville-1999),  Bahrain (Manama-1973), amongst others, I do not count.


Notes:

1.     I have been to the same geographic area several times....a country may have changed its name....I count both...example:  Zaire first, now DR Congo; but there are quite a few others...DDR/East Germany, Bundesrepublik  Germany...and now simply Germany; this makes 3 counts.

2.     I was travelling through South Africa during the Apartheid regime / hitchhiking... a period many independent states with their own governments  (homelands) were created...I have included Transkei where I overnighted in the capital Umtata in 1975

3.     I do not count when I have only touched down or have been to an airport in a country (see above examples)

4.     In the period after 1992...the break-up of the USSR...many quasi-independent states were created...I have counted my visits there...including Abkhazia (inside Georgia)...And you remember Vladikavkaz....where we had a World Vision office on and off...when security was bad in Nazran (Ingushetia). Vladikavkaz is now the capital of  the Republic of North Ossetia-Alania.

5.     The UAE...the Emirates...there are 7 of them....Abu Dhabi, Dubai, Ajman, Fujairah, Sharjah, Ras al-Khaimah, Umm al-Quwain .....do we count these individually? I have decided no. I have visited 3 out of the 7.  

6.     I have not included 'colonies, protectorates’, and departments outre-mer  like Netherlands Antilles,  Guadeloupe, But this is open for debate....

7.     And...the United Kingdom includes England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland........I counted 1 country. However, please note that the Channel Islands (Jersey and Guernsey) and the Isle of Man are not part of the UK! And Gibraltar also has a special status and is therefore counted as a country!

8.     The Balkans; Yugoslavia etc. The state construction Serbia-Montenegro broke up in 2003.... In case  I would visit the coming years Serbia, Montenegro and Croatia ..that would count for 3 new countries

9.     And…The Sudan is also a special case with South Sudan independent since 2011 and the Republic of The Sudan (visited Khartoum in Nov.2018)

Here is another list...those countries where I lived in / worked in for considerable time ....rented/owned  a house, worked in an office for months.... counting 26 locations….

 

1.     Netherlands (1951)

2.     Zambia (1975)

3.     Tanzania (1976)

4.     Germany (1979)

5.     Niger (1979)

6.     Upper Volta - Burkina Faso (1982)

7.     Mali (1983)

8.     Belgium (1987)

9.     the Gambia (1993)

10. Bangladesh (1994)

11. Kenya (1998)

12. Austria (2001)

13. Iran (2002)

14. Jordan (2002)

15. France (2004)

16. Switzerland (2004)

17. DR Congo  (2009)

18. Haiti (2010)

19. Italy  (2011)

20. the Vatican (2011)

21. Senegal (2012)

22. USA (2013)

23. Central African Republic  (2014)

24. Turkey-Türkiye  (2014)

25. Burundi (2017)

26. Republic of South Korea (2017)

27. Cuba (2019)

I realize that adding countries will become ever more difficult. I have travelled little in Southern America.
I wish you all a good and healthy 2023 with many travel mercies.



 

Monday, November 28, 2022

NIKSEN..the art and usefulness of doing nothing

 

NIKSEN: the art and usefulness of doing nothing

The ‘Dikke van Dale’ dictionary on Netherlands or Dutch  language and dialects, defines ‘niksen’ as ‘ nik-sen (nikste, heeft genikst) = niets uitvoeren, translated literally as doing nothing. Then I should add here that it means doing nothing on purpose.   

The verb ‘niksen’ is also close to the well-known verb ‘luieren’ in the Dutch language, meaning ‘being lazy’.   

 

Van Dale Dictionary of Dutch language from A to Z 
All schoolgoing children used it / as a minimum the pocket version. Every year this dictionary is updated. Language is a living thing!

Plenty of books and stories have been written about ‘those surprising Dutch’
and much of it is exaggerated, or has become less evident or visible, as the
Netherlands society becomes more diversified and influenced by globalism.
Here is though what I have been told is a specific one: ‘niksen’. The
substantive of this verb is ‘niks’ which means ‘nothing’ in Dutch. In fact the
word ‘niks’ could specifically refer to the dialect in the province of Brabant
where I was born.

 

Interestingly, the Dutch used to have a reputation of being industrious and hardworking, second in line after the Germans. And I read here and there that our productivity per capita is as high as that of the Germans and certainly much higher than that of the Koreans. Part of this lies in the fact that on average we work less hours than in Korea.
Hence, we have more spare time on our hands, and could allocate this time for example to the leisure business or to hobbies.

Niksen’ however is a different concept and has had for me different meanings over time. I heard this word at a very early age, late fifties after World War II when every man and his dog had a job…and those who did not, were branded a ‘niksnut’ or in English a person who was a ‘good for nothing’. My mother disqualified some people in our street as ‘niksnutten’ because they either did not have a regular job as a factory worker, construction worker or employee, but were involved in some shady occupancies, of which there were many right after the end of World War II.  But to play a bit with the words, after the war these
‘niksnutten’
actually did work, otherwise they wouldn’t have had bread on the
table
or potatoes in the frying pan.

 

Then, another form of ‘niksen’ I guess popped up as of the late-sixties when the Netherlands already was fully rebuilt and everyone had access to a
state pension scheme or received an allowance if they had not found a job yet
after schooling. We were already considered
very well-off as a society, capable to pay for those 10% of the population that did not want to or were not able to
work. My simple analysis therefore is that more income, more security, more
well-being, more freedom and the start of some kind of decadence led quite a
few people asking themselves at an early age ‘why should I participate in the
capitalistic rat race? The state with all its insurances will take care of me’.
One of my friends from university Frans H. finished his Masters after 8 years
and he could not hold a job for more than a few months. I believe he was never
employed during the past 40 years. But as life goes in the Netherlands, he
received some income from the state plus subsidized housing until now, and
presently he is receiving his lifelong state pension, and other benefits like
free public transport travel on train and bus. I would argue that in his case and
there are tens of thousands of them in the Netherlands, he practised a form of
‘niksen’ which reflects not interesting in doing a job
at all / period!

Or perhaps better nuanced: not interested in doing a job in which he was not interested.

Is this the equivalent to laziness? I do not think so because my old friend certainly had some interests in which he engaged. But in terms of gainful employment I believe he became close to my mother’s view on ‘niksen’.

Now I have come to believe that the real art and probably the usefulness of
‘niksen’ lies in planning to do nothing because you want to recuperate, or most
importantly to de-stress, to switch off, to chill. I very often, and on purpose, can
for more than thirty minutes literally watch the world go by in 100% idleness.
I have two good friends. One of them is Cor H. and he is always busy with
his many hobbies
and he does lead a regular life. The older he gets the more I
sense he develops with his wife the same activities they do together during
certain days of the week; even at certain hours of specific days. Even the
evening menus look alike every week and dinner time is every day except the
weekend at 18.30 hours on the dot. This is admirable but because of his
business and his trying to get his daily ‘to do list’ done he is not able to practice
‘niksen’. Fair enough I guess because indeed he has no interest in it.
Then my other good friend Gerard M. who now lives in Overijse, Belgium,
has a limited number of activities but one of them is to rest and recuperate, and
that is part of his daily tasks. He masters in my view the real technique of
‘niksen’: he plans it on a daily basis. As a pre-pensioner for over 15 years he
practises it in the morning after breakfast in his sunny garden, or after cycling in
the afternoon or just after having a few beers in the pub while his partner does
the cooking. And he swears by this ‘niksen’ because he is convinced that this
life style will get him to a very old age. Both Cor and Gerard lead different lives
altogether and have hinted often to me they will get to a 100 years of age. I
believe regularity and reasonable business is healthy. But also that taking a rest

regularly and put yourself during the day in a sleeping mode, a ‘niksen mode’ is
promoting a long life.


Niksen during the Hunsrueck Steig hike in Germany 2018 with 
Cor, Gerard and Anton


As for Biya and I, we are quite different in terms of taking a rest, taking a
nap, or wanting to finish work, and so on. I have always been a person who can
work pretty hard, to some extent disciplined, but when I feel that the adrenaline
is lacking I automatically try and find a way to excuse myself and basically to
do hardly anything….then I slowly move into my ‘niksen mode’. I started doing
this about 15 years ago when I worked in Geneva. The Swiss must have had an
influence on me as the offices in Geneva close up early; around 5pm every day.
And on Fridays even earlier and around 3pm most employees are packing up for
the weekend. Yes, during my Geneva period, somewhere around 200
8 I guess, I
started to do little or no work at all during the evenings; and very little during
the weekends. I spent nine years in a row in the Sahel region (from 1979 to
1987) where a siesta or afternoon rest of about two hours was the norm. I got so
used to it (and thoroughly enjoyed it as well!) that I believe it contributed to me
becoming a good apprentice for the art of ‘niksen’.
My work in the humanitarian and development field required patience and
often hours of waiting. Traveling to obscure places meant automatically waiting
for chauffeur driven 4-wheel drives, buses, trains and planes…with people
rescheduling and postponing appointments. I recall that when I was young I
used this ‘free time’ to write reports, make phone calls and get mails done. Even
during plane rides I worked. Slowly while in my fifties this work attitude
changed for a better one: I tried to rest, to sleep, or simply waited and think
about small stuff, or even better just watch the world go by in idleness.

I guess that age and the experience to manage my available time differently and reduce stress, played a role in my case. But also I learned that my kind of work
required to be highly active for hours if not days on end, the moment I would
arrive at a certain location. Better to be rested then. De facto I learned how to
pre-rest by doing nothing, knowing that once I arrived at a duty station a 60
hours plus hectic workweek was awaiting me.

I recall the bus station in Granada, Spain while waiting for more than one
hour with Biya for the bus to Malaga. While she was writing in her diary, or an
article for a newspaper, and totally concentrated, I happily watched the usual
business of travel
lers coming and going, families with children loaded with
backpacks and suitcases. Then there were several shuffling older people just
looking around like me; I passed the shops and food carts to see what there was
on sale…basically doing nothing but enjoying myself. In fact I was busy
‘niksen’. Just like the elderly shuffling Spaniards. Traveling can be hectic but I
now know that there is always some waiting involved: ‘relax Anton, take your
seat and close your eyes….you are ok, the bus will go once the driver shows
up…or not. Nothing you can do about that old boy!’
Then again once in the Philippines at an airport on one of the islands: Biya

grabbed her diary and did not look up from it for over half an hour. Always her
own busy bee. I decided to have a look around the airport, just look how many
planes would land from where and depart that day; where the taxi-stand was,
what there was to buy at the rice-shop…basically doing nothing relevant but
enjoying myself lingering on and around.
Now I may have become a professional at ‘niksen’ when I travel. I hardly
ever watch movies anymore in the plane; I rest and let my thoughts wander. The
same in buses and even in taxis these days. Ha-ha. As soon as I start to travel
perhaps my subconscious ego suggests to me that it is time for ‘niksen’. I have
tried over the years to instil quiet periods in Biya’s daily schedules. And indeed
some things are changing. We do pray longer together which is different from
‘niksen’
of course but one of the advantages of prayer is that you turn away from the pressures of this world, you reflect, and relax, And these days Biya often says ‘Anton, let’s take a nap, or even ‘Anton, I think I am going to take a
nap’.
In my understanding she increasingly appreciates down time, resting
time…who knows in a few years she will join me at ‘niksen’.


My mother used the Dutch saying ‘idleness is the pillow on which the devil
sleeps’ when she felt I was not studying enough. And I do agree that laziness
connected with doing nothing is not something anyone can be proud of. 

Doing absolute nothing without a purpose is equal to emptiness.
Niksen is different! 


But ‘niksen’ for me always has been a short and temporary state during or after
work or other physical occupations like sports. The knack is to use ‘niksen’ in a
way that it helps you to recuperate and prepare for times when your full
engagement will be required. Therefore I believe that ‘niksen’ is a useful
pastime!

A final example to illustrate the usefulness of ‘niksen’ became evident to me when some ten years ago I worked in Haiti after the horrendous earthquake that left more than 200.000 people dead. Heavy times for me waking up every day except Sunday at 5am. And regularly, after arriving home I sat on
the porch
in the evening before dinner, closed my eyes and my mind drifted off,
creating emptiness very slowly. In the beginning still full of the workload that I
had dealt with during the day…then gradually the chaos in my mind was
processed and some clarity arrived. Quite often the next morning I woke up and
got the answers to the questions and challenges from the previous day. I told
myself again and again ‘Anton, you see, and perhaps believe: ‘niksen’ can be
very effective’!
To be honest I believe that some cultures are better at it than we in the
Netherlands, and I am certain these cultures have interesting words for this as
well. And please get me right here: ‘niksen’ may be a Dutch word but it is not
generally practiced. People know what the word means and practice it more
when one gets older. But saying that the Dutch are the world leading
professionals in ‘niksen’ is simply not correct. Just go to Greece and Turkey any
time of the year and you see hundreds of people in front of a cup of coffee for
hours staring at the see watching the ships sailing by, or the waves coming in;
obviously these are busy with ‘niksen’. ‘Niksen-aficionados’…especially living
around the Mediterranean see?


On the other hand, the art of ‘niksen’ and its usefulness remains in the grey
literature area of not proven as yet by academics. But for those like me who feel
good after a dos
is of ‘niksen’ that is obviously not relevant. I imagine that
‘niksen’ will be far from becoming acceptable in Korea soon, with the current
achievement dominated work ethic and its always quick ‘pale-pale’ culture.
Seeing people
in the capital Seoul not doing anything can easily be interpreted as idleness, laziness or at best as not working, or being out of a job; the latter an indicator of failure I have heard from my wife.

Perhaps in a few years when some convincing management-guru is able to argue that ‘niksen’ can be a healthy and life prolonging activity for those Koreans that are willing to listen seriously. And for that growing cohort of now middle aged hardworking Koreans that realizes that they need to adjust their work rhythm sooner or later, before the ghost with the hammer can change their lives into suffering from a burn-out, depression, or in extremis from simply wanting to walk away from it all.

 

 

 

PS. Originally this article was suggested as a chapter in our book ‘I finally found someone to walk with’ (Biya Han and Anton van Zutphen, only available at Amazon)